I’ll expose myself, but not shove it in people’s faces. I just don’t want to find myself wearing obvious thick diapers, stuck in a lengthy interaction with someone, until there is no possible way they haven’t noticed my bulge. Similarly, if I’m playing on a shoreline somewhere and a boat comes floating by then disappears, I’m not worried. I found a spot where I could be clearly exposed to countless people, but only for a few seconds-I felt very comfortable with this.
My post at the top of this page is a perfect example. They’re probably just going to laugh at you, then tell all their friends about the “freak in a huge diaper” that they saw.
If they make the effort to “spy” on you, then again, it’s their problem if they don’t like it. At worst, they’ll see a guy who is wearing a weirdly large pair of shorts. I have no problem wandering around on a beach in view of other people, as long as they are far enough away that they would have to really try to notice the particulars of how I’m dressed. I use the “ Binoculars Rule“: if an observer needs binoculars / a telescope / a zoom lens to really see what you’re doing, you’re fine. By doing this in a “plausibly private” situation, you are eliminating the part where you are “getting off on making other people uncomfortable” -or at least you aren’t doing it on purpose. If you’re caught doing a kinky/embarrassing thing in a reasonably private place, then it’s just embarrassing or humiliating for you. Yes you are a freak, but you were acting the freak in a private place. If someone sees you doing what you do in a “plausibly private” situation, then it’s their problem for looking. Not setting up a situation where you are trapping an innocent bystander into being an unwilling participant in your kink. Basically you’re unexpectedly being observed (e.g. Similarly, if you are camping in the far side of nowhere & some long-distance hiker passes by- no worries. If you’re in a private back-yard & you know you are not going to be seen (unless someone makes the effort to climb up your fence) you’re ok. The key is having a reasonable expectation of privacy.
Fair).Īnother approach is to find anonymous or private places to play. Burning Man), or even fetish-focused (e.g. Some bars have fetish nights, and some public festivals are fetish-friendly (e.g. No matter how weird your kink, you aren’t the only one out there. It might take some work to find these people & groups, but it is possible. If you want to be exposed in front of other people in real life, find some like-minded kinksters and play with them. There are ways to enjoy exposure without being a total creep. Rule-of-thumb: If you are getting off on making other people uncomfortable you are probably being an asshole. Wearing nothing but a diaper while shopping, or wearing a frilly sissy outfit to dinner isn’t illegal or immoral. It is simply wrong to shove your fetish in the face of “innocent bystanders”.
How do you go about getting exposed & humiliated without ruining your public life and/or being a complete asshole? If the audience are “muggles” (people who aren’t into your particular kink, or kink in general) the humiliation is even bigger. Being exposed in diapers is one of the most humiliating things an ABDL can do. Add an audience, and it can get even more intense. Wearing diapers and/or dressing up in AB outfits are pretty embarrassing things, even if done in total privacy. It’s easy to enjoy being an exhibitionist if nobody is watching.Īnother strong theme is a desire to be humiliated.
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It’s an amazing thrill to find a safe, private place & feel free to go about your day in whatever outfit makes you happy. We also feel a deep pleasure in simply being exposed, even if nobody is seeing us. Exposure is a thrill & a risk, and usually the bigger the risk, the greater the thrill. We want other people to see us in our fantasy role, whether it be “adorable helpless baby” or maybe “dominated diaper-slave”. A very common theme among ABDLs is a desire to be exposed.
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